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social media bum. Shamelessy stolen from http://www.flowtown.com

You Can Do Anything on Twitter

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The other day my frenemy, Kerry McKibbin, posted the video below on Facebook and it made me and a few others wince with pain. The video pokes fun at what they call the “YouTube” generation. What they are referring to is the large number of pseudo-famous people who post videos on YouTube or tweet on Twitter who, for one reason or another, go viral overnight and then take their unexpected, short lived, accidental fame as expertise in whatever it is they got “famous” for. Here’s the vid.

DISCLAIMER: I Do not own the rights to this video and clearly neither does the poster of the vid. NBC Universal may at anytime remove the content, sue the crap out of the user who posted it from YouTube and repost it on their own channels/sites. Please don’t hurt me, NBC.

The ghosts of Antoine Dodson, Hungrybear9562 (double rainbow guy), and, I’m sad to say, a lot of people I’ve met at various social media events, conferences, outings rattle their chains as I write this. The vid satirizes “Twitter famous” people who, by virtue of their sizable followings, feel entitled to whatever it is they want. The character played by Daniel Radcliffe very poignantly explains that he got on the show by complaining to his many followers on twitter that he deserved to be on the show – the online equivalent of a spoiled kid tantrum or… terrorism.

It’s funny and yet so painful because it’s true. It’s the real dark side of the two-way conversation that has been opened up by social media and just about every “influencer” I have met is guilty of doing it to some degree at some point; myself included. I hang my head in shame at the admission of it but I did catch myself in the past and made my amends where necessary. Lalawag calls this phenomenon “Social Media Entitlement Syndrome” and there are a few variations to the meaning of the term from that most excellent article. I encourage you to read it:

1. Feeling and behaving as if one should be granted certain privileges (event access, free products, job offers) because he/she is well-known in social media.

2. Expecting all-access to an individual’s private life because he/she occasionally posts personal items in social networks.

3. Acting like it’s acceptable and normal to piss (bombard w/comments, tweets, DMs) on someone’s social stream.

4. Demanding that people retweet your content, and resenting them if they don’t.

5. Assuming that because you correspond with someone via social media, you should be invited to every social gathering that person plans or is involved with.

Some of them are more poignant for others, but you get the picture. If the video didn’t make you cringe enough, finding out that you’re guilty of one of the above will rub salt in the wound. I’ve noticed something of a binary divide in people you find on twitter and other social networks: people are either thought leaders with something to show for it (i.e. a book, a career in an related field, training, a popular blog) or they are noisemakers (read: social media bums) who are all over twitter but tend to have none of the aforementioned things coupled with a very vague twitter bio that mentions their love for cats and food.

social media bum. Shamelessy stolen from http://www.flowtown.com

Suck it up, social media sweetcake.

The thing is that even before I saw the video I’ve noticed and been aware of the issue but not given it much focused thought. What I can tell you is that the issue itself is in part responsible for my far less frequent posts on this here blog. You could say I’ve lost my joie de vivre for posting for the sake of posting about my life. It all started when I changed the direction of this blog to be more about the reader than me as much as possible. I try to post about things that are within reach of a reader rather than brag about that super exclusive event I was invited to. If I go to something like that (although lately I haven’t had any time to do it for some time now) then I usually offer readers an opportunity to join me there or reap some benefit from the sponsor of the event. Still you’ll notice that my posts have been going mostly in the direction of marketing, advertising, SEO, futurism and so on.

This all goes right back to the Social Media Elephant in the Room and it’s no wonder why there is an ever growing cohort of people who just can’t wait to declare social media “dead” because they see, like you may be starting to now, what was described above. However social media is still big business even if the adoption rate is still a bit slow among bigger companies who are accustomed to outbound communications. The value is still that two-way channel of communication that can make or break a company in terms of marketing and increase accountability. However, the dark side that is entitlement remains and it’s hard to tell if it’s going anywhere any time soon.

Image by: Banksy. elephant in the room

The Social Media Elephant in the Room

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Image by: Banksy. elephant in the room

Image: Banksy

There’s something I need to get off my chest. It’s been sitting there and pinning me down like the elephant in the room that it is. I’m talking about this “Expert Economy” that we currently live in on the social web.

You’ve seen it before; Twitter denizens who sound like all knowing wisemen/women by tweeting messages with social media marketing advice in a voice that sounds almost visionary. Newbies to the game eat it right up and become almost cultish in their ritualistic retweeting of what is just mumbo jumbo. When I got my start and was noobishly quivering at the implications that social media had for the web (back then it was called “Web 2.0″), I too was tempted to learn everything I could from all kinds of “experts” as I taught myself the ropes years ago. However, early on, I noticed a trend in the discourse surrounding the subject of social media: most of what was being put forth as expert advice was just the same old message regurgitated over and over again, ad nauseum (pardon the pun). Oh, and the buzzwords were, and remain, just rampant with some of the most frequent offenders being words like “engage,” “advocacy,” “measurement,” “ROI,” and, well, you get the picture.

There’s nothing really wrong with looking for some inspiration from others who sound like they have a unique perspective on things but I would say it’s worth a moment of your time to think critically about what’s being said. You may just find that there is nothing really being said at all.

In essense, Social media is just the digital equivalent of word of mouth. That’s pretty much it. Yep. So when I hear “experts” and pundits tweeting about how it’s important to be nice and to listen and interact with people who follow your brand, product, blog, etc. I say “DUH!!” When did expertise in social media just consist of telling people what their mothers taught them as children? In fact a lot of the “expert advice” that is given on twitter, in speeches at lavish, expensive events or in books, is just common sense manners that you should be practicing to, you know, get along in society…

I’ve been called an expert on the subject (although I will never accept that title on principle of what I’m saying here) and been asked to speak at this conference or that meetup and have always been asked the same question: “what do you think is the future of social media? Will it die?” and I always reply with the same response: “It’s just going to become the way of the web, if it hasn’t already.” What I mean by that is that gone are the days when you would see websites with 20+ “chicklets” lining the bottom of a webpage allowing you to share the content on one or (gulp) more of the numerous social networks that were around when this social media thing blew up. It has since contracted and condensed as the cream of the crop have improved their offering and audience. For example, everyone’s on Facebook so that’s what sites are tailoring their social sharing tools and strategies. This isn’t anything new and even the most uninitiated are likely aware of this. Eveyone wants the scoop or the easy answer, but the hard truth is that there isn’t an easy answer. Nobody expected twitter or facebook to happen; they just did and were a big hit that got bigger over time through, yes, word of mouth.

 

Social media pundit tweets

some real doozies. Click to enlarge

So let’s say you’re new to social media, marketing, PR or what have you and you are looking to learn as much as you can in a field that as yet has no accreditation. You’re probably one of the many who are also looking for the “secret sauce” or the quick fix. So you get on twitter and most of what you see are tidbits from social media “gurus, “ninjas” or “mavens” like the ones posted above (names and handles removed to remain respectful) – what have you learned? Well you may have learned to play real nice online but in the way of an actual marketable skill you’ve learned bupcus. All you will have to show for it is a pile of “self help” style books and an even bigger pile of wasted time. When I was learning I was lucky enough to be given the opportunity to help edit and publish a book about the actual nuts and bolts of electronic and physical distribution (i.e. supply chains, consumer patters and pathways) so I tended to to lean toward educational materials that were both quantitative or empirical rather than just qualitative. If you are serious about making a career in the digital frontier I urge you to take the expert advice with a grain of salt (I’m not saying to totally ignore it) but make sure you counterbalance it with some real, marketable skills such as understanding analytics, maybe a bit of coding and a solid understanding of Search Engine Optimization (SEO). Some PR and marketing sense doesn’t hurt either.

Alan Langford has a good sense of humor

Many success stories come in the way of case studies on community managers who have gone above and beyond the call of their employers. I have lots of respect for them as they are not just sunny customer service agents, they are actually also great business people at the same time. The real difference between a community manager on paper and a social media rockstar is a combination of a very positive attitude, lots of energy and the ability to buckle down and get to the nitty gritty numbers so one can make sense of all of that to an employer who, much of the time, has no idea themselves on how community management works but has heard stories of people like Erin Bury and Casie Stewart and wants the same success they’ve shown to be emulated for their own brand. As a personal friend of both these ladies I know that it’s not all parties and tweetups. There’s some real work involved that usually calls on the skills I listed above and more – so if you’re thinking that social media is just an easy job where you’re paid to party, you’ve got another thing coming.

Trust me on this one and face the elephant in the room head on, otherwise you run the risk of sounding like you got your social media strategy from this site.

 

 

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